Good Afternoon guys and Good Friday to you all.
So you read the headline and thought what on earth is she talking about?!? Let me stop you here. I know you love your kids / children / babies ! But have very strange way of showing it.
I have been living in UK for 9 years now and nearly most of time living here I either worked in a restaurant or dined there and amazing pattern emerged… Brits hate their kids. They love themselves. Don’t mind spending 60 -80 quid on two course meal for two, but truly hate their kids.
Recent example. Couple in their mid 30’s with two lovely kids age 5 and 7 (approx, I didn’t ask that would’ve been weird) ordered some goats cheese salad and whitebait to start with for themselves. Then lamb shank and seabass for mains…and what kids get to eat?!? Deep fried fish fingers and fries! For dessert ice cream and all washed down with coke. Parents on other hand share a bottle of decent wine and follow-up with loads of water (not tap!) and green tea (not coffee!)
What!?!?! Shouldn’t you be feeding your babies your flesh and blood something really nice?! Like seabass or at least chicken …
I don’t get it. I don’t have kids though so I did some research. I spoke to couple of friends first Russian then British.
Russian friend said: if they don’t eat what family eats then they don’t eat. Full stop. Her eldest is 13 and doesn’t like meat so she gets cheese instead but that’s about it, no other excuses. Her 2-year-old eats everything – fries and pizza are massive treat!
British friend said: kids eat kids food and we eat something nice. When pressed to find out what on earth is kids food …it transpires to be pizza, pasta, fries and chicken strips. She is a fitness fanatic but feels that pressing her kids into healthy eating early on is unfair on them. When I said that its unfair feeding them crap she said that as I do not have kids I am not allowed to say anything.
I am confused. Is anybody out there can help me?? How come in one of the richest countries in the world kids are eating the least nutritious food ?!
Confused. When I worked with single mothers on benefits I was amazed to find out that those women who do not work and get a lot of childcare free or nearly free never cook and survive on take outs and convenience food … for me free time means me time which is me cooking and treating myself.
I really don’t get it. Maybe that’s because I don’t have kids. But I do have two sisters and I do remember growing up and eating what was given to me. I don’t remember being allowed to have a choice when it came to food and family meals. I remember very well being scared of not having food when crisis hit Russia in 1994 and me and my dad went round shops buying all available kinds of pasta, sunflower oil, pulses and stocking the storage we had in our flat. I also remember being 8 and standing outside the shop with another 300 people queuing for butter with little number scribbled in biro on my hand. Maybe that’s why I am so grateful now for every opportunity to eat and enjoy food.
It was 1996 winter when I first tried a snikers bar. My dad brought it home and after dinner (soup and buckwheat porridge with meatballs) he cut it into small pieces and we all had a little bit. It was divine. I am now 27 and I still cut it into small pieces and savour every little bit of it. It’s a treat. After dinner treat and always will be.
Anyways I am ranting here. So here goes: is there anybody out there who can tell me why British parents feed their kids the way they do ? And is there anything I can do to help them?!?!
And since you have been really good and still reading my mad ramblings as promised here is a Carrot Cake Recipe. And some lovely kids helping me to make one:)
Ingredients:
300g plain flour
2 tsp cinnamon
1 tsp baking powder
½ tsp bicarbonate of soda
200g soft brown sugar
4 eggs
250ml sunflower oil
1 orange , zested
1 lemon , zested
200g carrots , finely grated
150g walnuts , chopped
For the frosting:
125g unsalted butter at room temperature
50g icing sugar
250g cream cheese
1. Heat the oven to 150C/fan 130C/gas 2. Line a 20cm, 10cm deep cake tin. Sift the flour, cinnamon, baking powder and bicarbonate of soda together and stir in the sugar. Beat the eggs with the oil and citrus zests. Stir in the carrots and fold everything into the flour mixture. Fold in the walnuts. Spoon the mixture into the tin and bake for 1 hour 20 minutes or until a skewer comes out clean. Cool.
2. For the frosting, beat the butter and icing sugar together until soft and then beat in the cream cheese. Chill the mixture until it’s thick but spreadable. Spread a thick layer on top of the cake, making sure the side of the icing is flat and continues upwards from the side of the cake.
It comes out delicious!!
Enjoy and Happy Cooking!
Zhenya x